FAQs
a self-actualization playground + resource hub built for gen z + millennial women, girls, and femmes of color who exist as creatives, gamers, and moral beauty freaks + 1:1s with Lo
UM’s voice, language, visuals, inspo, descriptions, vibes, etc. are embodied honestly and in no way made to be used commerically, to name drop, endorse or to appeal with what’s trending atm. i love all the hidden easter eggs and everything you see + experience here is the magical world i've always had living inside my head n all around me. and i'm glad i get to finally birth it into existence :'o]]] xx
At this time, UNSTRUCK ME prioritizes helping women, girls, and femmes of color. This includes non-binary, gender fluid, gender non-conforming, and polygender people, along with those who are questioning their identity.
Respectfully, inclusivity is taken seriously here, and all races and backgrounds are welcome. The "ME" in "UNSTRUCK ME," and "Girl" in the "Girl Talk Slumber Party" potion, are also not meant to exclude or leave out those it's intended for. Keep in mind, if my target audience was everyone, I'd prolly be walkin on eggshells knowing I can't please everyone. The best way I can connect better and offer my support, is through feeling confident sharing my life experiences from a WOC's female perspective. Plz note, I'm always eager n open to learning and growing. Any feedback would be really, really, appreciated in helping UM be the most inclusive space there is x feel free to reach out to filthyfanmail@unstruckme.com
congratssss!!!!!! you found the magical UNSTRUCK ME random link generator button for resources geared to inspire and help you understand yourself :o]]]]]]
Nooo unfortunately not at this time. I really suck at hounding people to pay when payments are late (as well as cold call selling). I just live and share what lights me up and that in itself innocently draws the right (sometimes wrong) people to me.
Noooo, as potions aren't considered "therapy."
I am not a mental health therapist nor an emergency 911 responder. I am only here to guide from lived experience. I don't know everything and I only offer the tools so you can experiment and play with them on your own terms.
ALL POTIONS ARE FINAL + NON-REFUNDABLE - It's a headache to have to deal with late cancels, refunds, credit surcharges, scammers, and I'm not here to get people to interview and try UNSTRUCK ME to see if they like it. I'm not energetically built for selling and hate having to prove or convince people to "see me" when there are people who already do and know the value I can offer without me having to try and be pushy.
Yes, yes, yes, and yes - I utilize your birth info and details for running astrological and human design charts to know how you best operate energetically and make the best decisions, for example. I don't sell any of it and won't stalk you (or give that info away for other people to do so). For more info, plz check out UM's privacy policy x
gen z + millennial, women, girls, and femmes of color, who exist as creatives, gamers, and moral beauty freaks,
battling any of the following themes - codependency, people pleasing, setting healthy boundaries, relationship struggles, understanding their values, healing their subconscious beliefs + inner child wounds, needing to vocal process to gain clarity, etc. or who just woke up from living as other people's idea of them. I also offer potions for workflow efficiency and gift giving consulting <333
Yes just an IG (TikTok TBA) that I made 2 years ago when I told myself UNSTRUCK ME is happening - it's @unstruckme - but will be used primarily as a mood board (I don't like the pressure of having to post and keep up with it to boost engagement. I like posting when I feel like it and it always seems to work/show when I do it organically vs. forcing myself to) I'm not afraid of being forgotten and I'd rather have people forget about me because I'm not posting often than to be remembered and known as someone I'm not + can't keep up with.
OMG there are so many easter eggs :) Disable the pop-up blocker and feel free to click everywhereee, it's also best experienced on a computer (mobile version lacks functionality) x
Sometimes - rlly super super rare - like I have to be OMG yesss or it's a hard no + I vocal process it. You can shoot an email at filthyfanmail@unstruckme.com or leave a voice message at voicemail@unstruckme.com and if I'm interested you'll get a response back. But if not, srry I most likely don't have the capacity or it doesn't feel energetically aligned with what I am doing atm, doesn't matter if youra friend from the past, an old boss, close family member, friend of a friend, stranger, etc. paid or not paid, you'll get a response back if I'm down. If you or your organization is pushy, in a hurry, without giving me the freedom to choose, it will prolly also be an automatic no.
Virtually, via Google Chrome desktop/laptop on Cosmos.video - I love to travel and I'm currently based in the Netherlands CET time x
Majority of the resources I’ve shared came to me when I wasn’t trying to find them, but needed them the most. I was able to filter out the cheesy marketing or annoying western wrapping paper aside in order to take what resonated with me and give it my own meaning. Later I realized, the people who need it the most, wouldn’t even have access to this info because of (money obvi), the way it’s branded, outdated, or because of how the person who’s sharing it, looks like/is - in the end, making it super hard to find/absorb. I guess in simpler terms, when navigating UM resources, please understand that the medium isn’t the message here, and to only take what feels right to you, even if it’s a resource you wouldn’t necessarily post or share with your friends because it doesn’t fit the vibe of your audience, page, or a resource that may be too 'out there’ for anyone to understand.
filthyfanmail@unstruckme.com
My potions are priced based on the value I’m creating and how I see the world. Plus I wanted my potions to cost as much as (on average) a telfar bag for example, because I feel introspection should be just as important and exciting as saving up + buying a bag you’re drooling over. My biz is registered in the Netherlands and my pricing is all-in.
We’ll figure out a plan B, and most likely just vid call each other via WhatsApp, or I’ll send a gmail invite for Google Meet, Zoom, which ever method works best x
18+
introspection, self-awareness, self-actualzation, self-confidence, self-acceptance, sleep over slumber party vibes, uplifting support, empowerment, healing, no spiritual bypassing or using people’s inadequacies to milk off from, destiny’s child bills bills bills salon meets spice girl morning slumber party, justice and limited too for adults, if WNRS had a bb with NBGA MAG, MC in Sag, blissful, magnetic, magical, meaningful, innovative, and transparently blunt n sweet AF x
maybe, when i feel like it
kinda
maybe
sometimes, no ty
Initial and one-off hangouts: schedule a day + time, fill out the questionnaire, pay ~~> receive a confirmation email with the booking info, link for our hang, and client portal login info, sign client agreement via portal, receive 2 reminder emails - 28 hours + 1 hour before sesh.
Recurring hangouts: schedule a day + time, ~~> receive a confirmation email with the booking info, link for our hang, receive 2 reminder emails - 28 hours + 1 hour before sesh.
It is super important to check your spam folder just in case and to let me know if you didn’t receive the emails prior to our sessions x
Ugh I know how you feel, at this time UM doesn't offer any scholarships but you can join the UNSTRUCK ME WORLD walkie talkie chat on the SOMEWHERE GOOD APP (USA + Iphones only atm) every Friday for free x
Not yet but I would love to in the future (just created my own table so it may take a while for peeps to sit at it, but when that time comes yes yes yes yes)
If a session is missed, it cannot be rescheduled and all potions are non-refundable. If you are more than 10 minutes late or misses a session, it will be considered cancelled. In this case, if you would still like to book a potion, you will need to re-purchase and book a new one via the website.
Once booked and paid, I cannot refund you, unfortunately. Please make sure before booking you recognize UNSTRUCK ME for what it stands for, are willing and able to commit + has Google Chrome + a strong, stable internet connection.
All sessions are virtually held on Cosmos.video (via Google Chrome and desktop computer/laptop) and you must be fully present, in a quiet space + carry a strong, stable internet connection. In order to get the best intimate experience, without any external distractions, please refrain from multi-tasking, commuting or running errands during our session.
I am very passionate about UM to the point where I just jumped and turned my vision into reality. It's been a hidden ongoing process for like 4 years of people bein like wahhhht???, until now. I honestly made this FAQ page in an hour ish and will go back to revise it when need be + writing it as if I am speaking to a friend makes it 1000000x easier vs. overthinking it and trying to make it what a FAQ "should" be
under construction and coming soon x
it's ok, i don't like everyone so why would i expect you to, but plz reach out to moltenhotlava@unstruckme.com for further assistance x
